Hello, I'm Zoe,
When you have sessions with me I will use proven tools and strategies that will really help you recognise the traits and tactics of a narcissist. We can discuss what you need to do to protect your mental health, and what emotional and practical support you need. You will leave the session with your very own Action Plan, to help you to keep you moving forward in your healing journey.
I understand the confusion, rage, shame and despair. Recovering from a toxic relationship takes time and on-going support, and as a qualified domestic and narcissist abuse coach, counsellor and survivor of domestic abuse I am here to help you, because you don’t have to do this alone.
I will educate, validate, support, encourage, and empower you on your journey to Self Love After Abuse.
A little bit about me. I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years, so I really do understand the tangled confusion you feel. After getting free, I decided to get qualified as a coach and counselor so I can help you, as I found that the specialist support available to survivors is limited. I have been free for over 7 years now, and I am in a happy, healthy relationship, so I can guide you on your journey to being able to thrive after abuse.
It’s like we have all dated the same person, one who displayed characteristics of a narcissist, sociopath and psychopath! I understand the pathological minds games, emotional control, and manipulation that a toxic person inflicts on you. I have been emotionally, physically, sexually and financial abused. I have been hoovered and love bombed and been tempted to fall for it. I’ve been made to feel crazy and think that I was losing my mind. I have been sucked dry and made to feel unbalanced, numb and depleted.
I thought I had married my soulmate; little did I know that he was wearing a mask! Everything was amazing at first, I felt loved and cared for but then it slowly started to change. I could never do enough for him, he always wanted more and I felt like I was constantly failing. After my daughter was born, things started to get worse, he would constantly accuse me of cheating, call me names, say I was ugly and make me feel worthless. He then started to get physical, it started small, a pinch, a slap, pulling my hair but soon he was raping me on a regular basis, strangling and pinning me down on the floor.
After I left him, for six months he stalked me until it finally escalated to the point of him battering in my front door with a concrete block, attacking and head-butting me, which resulted in me needing 12 stitches in my forehead.
If you want to read more about my story, I have been featured in the "The Mail" and "The Mirror" newspapers.
I am free, healed and happy. I now support and coach others, helping you to grow in self-love and confidence, as often after abuse you feel worthless. But no matter how you have been treated or what you have been told about how you look, you are beautiful, worthy and deserve so much more. And although the path to freedom can be a bumpy one, it’s so worth walking, so let’s go on this journey together.
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Why Should you Work with Me?
I am honored to be recognized as an award-winning expert in domestic and narcissistic abuse recovery. With over six years of experience, I am dedicated to empowering survivors and providing the tools they need to reclaim their lives. This commitment has earned me the trust of countless individuals on their healing journey. Interested in learning more? Check out testimonials from my clients.
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